Don't expect others to give you what you give them, right ? Like, one of the biggest things that I'm now very comfortable with. Understanding is, Ah, my heart is different. And the energy attached to making others feel good is a high level energy. And just because you had that, it doesn't mean other people should. Um, everybody operates differently, right ? And everybody shows their love, shows their value, shows their commitment differently. Yeah, So I took the pressure off of others when I stopped expecting you to do what I do, share, believe, inspire, blacks, be.